PinnedBobannaBad men with gunsSouth Dakota pheasant hunting season opens this weekend. The influx of camouflage and orange clad strangers in town always reminds me of…3 min read·Oct 10, 2022--4--4
PinnedBobannaAdvice for men creating dating profiles(This was edited on Jan. 20, 2023)5 min read·Aug 1, 2022--9--9
BobannaDo Not Try this on the PlaygroundI have always been a bit of a nerd and loner, and during my early elementary years, I kept to my self on the playground most of the time…3 min read·Mar 22, 2024--1--1
BobannaIs my work worth paying for?I found my dream job at age 50, as a reporter and photographer for my weekly small-town newspaper. When I graduated from high school in…7 min read·Jul 30, 2023----
BobannaTwo years and countingThe last two years have been an emotional and personal roller coaster.5 min read·Jul 7, 2023----
BobannaUpdate to “Dating as an Older Widow.”Next! (I keep updating this, latest was 10–05–23) If the F-bomb offends you, don’t read any further.15 min read·May 22, 2023--8--8
BobannaOnline dating~ Do I really want to try this?I don’t write here as often as I thought I might. I may have lost my writing mojo during this long winter. But thought I would give an…4 min read·Mar 20, 2023----
BobannaStupid things people say to the grieving , or Choosing to be amusedPeople have said some of the most outlandish things to me since my husband died almost ten months ago. I could get hurt; I could get mad…4 min read·Sep 3, 2022----
BobannaSurviving my not-so-scary new “normal”I have been a widow for a little over seven months now, after almost 42 years of marriage. I was 19 and moved out of my parents’ house the…2 min read·Jun 15, 2022----